Part 2
Brenda Ngxoli neh!
Bethuna if you have been following her journey you would know that this started long time ago. She shared all this on her interview with MacG on his podcast.
It didn't start yesterday. And for her to record it's because she's saving evidence that what her mother is saying isn't true. Guys there's lots of abantwana who left their homes because of toxic parents. Abazali who only value their kids when they something (imali). Once everything goes south, they show their characters because they are no longer serving them.
Kukho abazali who have favourites, it's reality guys. Check the comments on the videos,. someone sheared her journey that when she used to work, she would send every cent at home and leave nothing for herself because she wanted to please her mother.
If y'all are saying she must leave, please tell me where to when she's not working and she spent everything she had to build her mom's house. Bethuna, Brenda doesn't owe her mother, it's actually the other way around because who gave birth to who?
If she's been doing everything when she had the power to do so, why is she treated differently when she doesn't have enough to provide anymore? I'm so sad guys, I don't know how she feels because I've never been in her shoes but I know that must hurt.
I feel like she's crying for help, please let's be considerate when addressing this issue. Brenda never had a fixed salary, she earns per gig. Nithi ayephi? Don't compare her to people who have a fixed salary.
Many other social media users chimmed in with their opinions:
Zuki: "Why can’t you gather close family members and seat down to discuss and resolve the matter. Hanging your dirty laundry in the public never resolves anything
"Thumi: "Please remove this from social media sisi. Please deal with this ekhaya, don't show the nation. I am sympathizing with you kodwa, REMOVE it, its not gonna help you nor your daughter Sky. I love you so much futhi."
Phindi: "Pain changes people. When I watch this, it makes me so so sad and heavy hearted because this is years of bleeding in the generational chain of your family. When you posted this, you wanted us to see your pain, your sadness and struggle. I see it Brenda Ngxoli , I understand it and I know how much you want healing for yourself. We are seeing a minute clip of what you had to deal with your entire life, that’s years of her bleeding on you. Hurt people hurt people.
One thing I wish I would have been told being a mother? Is how much my scars caused by my mother during my childhood would arise when I became a mother. I see you
"Zimisele:" This so painful. My honest advice to you Brenda,my sister, is PLEASE remove this from the media seek therapy. By this I am not judging you. I am talking from experience."
Sipho:" Sometimes the best decision u can make is to leave relatives, just live ur life like they never existed..."
Sanga: "This is spiritual and there's a deep dark spirit causing all this destruction. Sadly this is not finding a solution
to the pain you're going through as a family. Sadly 
when a camera 
comes out and things start being shown to the public it's already too late, all control is lost and you're being used to magnify your own demise. Hopefully you and your family find real help to heal your family"Amina:" Hhay Brenda you have to take care of your mother, it is your responsibility to feed her, after all she has done all his best to give you the best life ever.
I am very disappointed in the way you have done things. Going head to head with your mother?
THIS IS NOT A GOOD SIGHT TO SEE FOR YOU CHARACTER SISTER."
Athiey:" This is too much..Mama is old, old age act like this they become like babanochuku..But nawe I feel like you could have resolved such eye to eye"
Cooky: "Very sad, you can't exchange words with your mother, worse part you record her for the public to see. You are wrong sisi at all levels. The Bible says respect your parents... If you feel that she provokes you rather stay away from her and be quiet"
Tumza: "
I love her so much 
we miss her acting south Africans let's help her please 
...please God help Brenda and her mother to make peace....Brenda needs help right now she needs us as a country to help her and give her a support"Cindy: "Because you build a house for them so you wanted them to bow to you, thuth be told Brenda is dramatic even at work nje sue producers, how I wish my mama was still alive I could never do this to her.. I'll make sure her last days are peaceful as ever but we are not the same.."
Xoli: " You both wrong therefore one has to humble themselves so that this issue may be resolved ..this is deep than this"